Saturday, March 14, 2009, 6:20 PM
LOVE LOVE LOVE

When most people think about love,
all they really think about it is romantic OR familial.
Those are two common aspects of how love is like,
but love is so much more than just an emotional attachment.
Love is also an attitude, lifestyle, belief system, and so much more.

Well, what does love mean to you?!

Is it just romantic, familial
OR
an attitude, lifestyle, belief system and so much more.


3rd, Cherrychero

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" ARE YOU HEADED FOR A BREAK-UP ? " Break up Survival Guide part 1 - Chrome♥
Friday, March 13, 2009, 6:54 PM
SIGNS YOU ARE OVER IT
  • Sometimes you ignore his calls -- you just don't feel like talking to him.
  • Things you used to find cute -- like his 'Secret' nickname for you --- you find it totally annoying , repulsive.
  • When you hook up, you feel like you're just going along with it -- you are not dying for him to kiss you anymore.
  • When you're out with your friends, you find yourself flirting with other guys.
  • Instead of feeling really good about yourself whne you're with him, you feel agitated, bored or distant.
  • You've thought about breaking up with him or asked friends if you should do it.

SIGNS HE'S OVER IT

  • He makes excuses for why he can't hang out -- repeatedly.
  • When you call his moblie, he never seems to pick up or have it on.
  • He "forgets" important stuff -- like you saying that you want to go watch the new movie over the weekend.
  • His friends, who usually talks to you, suddenly act weird around you.
  • He has made you cry, feel stupid or picked a fight more than once in the past week.



BOTTOM LINE: If you checked more then four signs in either coolumn, the relationship isn't working -- and at least one of you isn't willing to try fix it.

-Chrome♥

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In Love and Clueless
, 3:41 PM

Young adults these days are more adventurous when it comes to exploring their sexuality, but their behaviour and lack of sexual health awareness also puts them at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies. Young, lusty and in love, but heedless about the dangers of unprotected sex.
Results from a July 2008 survey conducted by Bayer Schering Pharma of 240 ITE students, aged 15 to 20 ,on sexual health awareness showed how ignorant some of them are, according to a New Paper article.
Three in 10 students polled believed that douching (washing out) the genital area can remove all traces of sperm and prevent unwanted pregnancy. Three in 10 also believed that urinating and vigorous exercise can prevent pregnancy. 68 of the 240 youths surveyed have had sex, and only about half of them used contraceptives during their last sexual activity.
Another survey of 2,000 people in 10 countries, commissioned by The Body Shop and MTV Networks International, showed that only one in six women were willing to carry condoms in her handbag, as they believe doing so will give the perception that they are 'easy'. Preventing unwanted pregnancies aside, it seems that sexually active adults hardly pay any attention, if at all, to sexually-transmitted diseases, or STDs.
A separate HIV/AIDS survey conducted by the Singapore Health Promotion Board last year showed that 80.4% of participants were aware of at least two of the three ways to prevent HIV, and 36.6% were aware of all three and one in two participants did not know that using condoms can prevent HIV transmission.
The survey was conducted among 1,768 people ages 18 to 69 and asked participants about their awareness of HIV prevention, primarily concerning abstinence, fidelity and condom use.Just how well-versed are young Singaporeans when it comes to protecting themselves against unsafe sex and pregnancy?

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PIGGY'S PART 3 <>
Thursday, March 12, 2009, 8:26 PM

Frank A. Clark said,

"A baby is born with a need to be loved - and never outgrows it."

If you want to confess your love.

First, understand the person first.

Some people regretted being with the person after getting together.

Why?

Because he or she did not understand the person fully enough.

Henri B. Stendhal said,

"A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love."

So, don't be scared of expressing yourself to the one you love,

Because you wouldn't know what the ending will be.

You might think that he or she won't like you nor accept you.

But, nobody knows the answer clearer than the person whom you had a crush on.

Be brave and do the right thing.

No matter what the answer is,

At least after you confess,

The person will know how you feel towards him or her.

Don't just hide in one corner and like them secretly.

If everyone thinks the same way as you,

Do you think we were even born?

You might even regret not confessing.

But everything is too late.

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" The BREAK-UP Survival Guide " - Chrome♥ Introduction
Monday, March 9, 2009, 6:30 PM

When you suddenly find yourself nursing a broken heart, here's how to deal with it . -ElisaBenson.seventeen.

In a perfect world, ex-boyfriends would transfer schools and only reappear to confess tearfully how much they miss you -- and by then, you'd have moved on to dating guys who are hotter than Edward Cullen. But in the real world, the pain of a break up can leave you feeling broken.
It's like one-minute, you're texting, kissing and loving the person -- and the next,
you're crying into your pillow, praying he'll call, and wondering if you are always going to feel totally,
completely alone.

Or maybe you are in a relationship that you know in your heart isn't right for you. You want out, but you are nervous -- is being with someone better than being guy-free ?
Can you let him down gently?
Will you regret it later ?

Break-ups are never easy, but you can minimise the pain and drama.
Whether you're coping with your own heartache, or considering ending things with your BF , this guide will help you through your break-up the right way, so you can turn sadness into something that will make you stronger. ( PS maybe try asking Edward to BITE you . hehes. )

-Chrome♥

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PIGGY'S PART 2
Sunday, March 8, 2009, 9:28 PM

Hello everybody, welcome back to this blog, so just enjoy!
As for the topic today, we shall talk about guys... AGAIN.
Last post, we think that the faces of guys is the main thing that we girls will look out for.
But actually, the guy's heart is the most important thing.
Like, would you ever get along with a guy that has a face that every girls want but has a wicked heart..
Or would you rather be with another guy which has an average look but a heart made up of gold?
Some girls might say that looks are the most important thing,
Like, who cares about the heart?
But, most girls would rather go for the second choice,
Which is average look with a kind heart, right?
Some girls will just disagree and say "NO!"
It's kind of expected.
Different people will just give different comments about it,
We are all human and that's human nature.
Actually, more girls go for feelings about that particular guy rather than what they see.
It's the right feeling that makes the whole thing meaningful.
Some, or should i say most, couples got together with the right feelings.
Although some might just break up due to change of feelings or some other reasons.

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BREAKING UP YES NO?!
, 4:07 PM

Breaking up is something never easy to do,
especially when you're deeply, madly in love.

You guys can be madly in love with each other this instant,

but the next - fighting, slapping and resorting to violence.
It all leads to many why(s), why this and why that?

Breaking up is never easy as your heart will surely get hurt.
How'd you know whether he/she's 'THE ONE' for you or not.
If you guys are on the verge of breaking up, how'd you confirm it?

First, he/she will be picking fights with you out of the blue.
He/she will turn petty, someone whom they are not usually.
They will become more distracted, turn less attentive to you.

Second, lesser phonecalls/texts will be made everyday.
He/she used to call you up nearly every hour just to check on you?

But now.. it has been nearly almost two days since they just did.
Reason? "Oh, my phone batt went flat. I'm so sorry sweetheart"

(Even though you swear you used a private num to call and it rang!!!)
You're not as important, not as significant to him/her anymore.

You will never know when might these things occur, right?
Love is a strange, and funny thing. Crazy how people love.
But love is blind, everyone mismatch, attracts another.
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So don't go finding for love, cause love will ultimately get to you!

2nd, Cherrychero

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DON'T GET PREGNANT!
, 2:01 PM

Hello readers! ;D MAG IS HERE. Today, I am going to touch on the topic - Unwanted Preganancies. Enjoy.


Just how many times does a teenager need to be reminded about contraception and sexually transmitted diseases?
What does it take for them to be heard?
Some children just do not listen and choose to ignore the best advice that can given to them.

It is hard for an unmarried mother to raise a child.

nwanted pregnancies are sad situations,

however
if the damage is done then face up to your responsibilities.
Matter tend to get out of hand when it's too late to consult a doctor or talking to your parents. You could be putting yourself and your unborn child in danger.
If you have any inclination that you are pregnant seek help right away. What your parents say might cause you unnecessary worry. I cannot say that they will be happy with the news.Words like "I told you this would happen" or "How could you have been so stupid?" could be spoken in a harsh tone. However, by the end of the day, your mum will eventually give their support when she has calmed down and have accepted the fact that she is going to be a grandmother. If you ver needed anyone to give you support throughout your teenage pregnancy, it will your mum or your closest friends where you can talk to. Also , pray to Lord for help and believe in him.
Contraception should be used to help prevent an unwanted pregnancy but not 100%. However, if you decide to have an abortion, they will come with a life sentence- heartache and pain and regret?
Don't ruin your childhood with such things but, I am not saying that every teen pregnancy has not worked out, and there were many where their lives were ruined. Do you want to raise a baby, especially one that has ruined your life. Will you ever love that infant in the way you should? Sadly many teen mums do not their innocent baby has to suffer and end up raising their child on their own.
Think of the consequences.
If you choose to ignore all the golden rules then you have to accept the consequences. Please have yourself checked over by a doctor early to make sure that there are no complications. I do not wish to frighten you but teen mums that have not fully reached puberty themselves need extra care and attention. Counsellors who deal with such situations are very understanding and compassionate towards any concerns relating to teen pregnancies. If you find talking about the matter private, then ask your close friend to go with you and let them do the talking.
If all fails, then consider buying a condom.:D(*Tee hee*)

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