MAG- SEXUAL ABSENTENCE
Wednesday, March 4, 2009, 5:09 PM

Hello, readers! ;D I am Mag! Welcome to the blog that belongs to the 5 beautiful young ladies from the adviser council club- Asrah, Cherry, Chrome, Piggy and I!Today, I am going to touch on the topic "SEX" during a boy-girl relationship. Many teenager nowadays have sex with their boyfriend/girlfriend as they think that sexual intercourse is very common and that it's cool to have it. I can’t stop the march of progress as sex is so common on TV. And you can’t stop it, at least do it right.

Do it maturely and responsibly. BUT do not have sex just to stay your bf with you. If your bf says that he wants to have sex and say he will love you forever and mushy, romantic stuff, ITS RIDICULOUS!

Other than total sexual abstinence, only condoms currently provide significant protection against HIV and other STIs. Personally, I do think that the sex education taught in school is not adequate. Most kids find out about this topic from other sources like friends and magazines. Many magazines rampantly encourages sex. Although their target audience may not be aimed at teenagers, they still read it and, in the process, can be influenced. These kids will then perceive sex, any kind from premarital to casual, is all right. Younger generation may be very open to premarital sex. one of my friend openly confessed, "the mood just came, what."


However, there are 2 most common sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) that you might be transmitted.
Gonorrhea is a bacterial STD. Symptoms : A yellowish or greenish vaginal discharge and a burning feeling when urinating and can affect the anus and the throat. Gonorrhea can be treated with antibiotics in early stage. If left untreated, it can cause PID and infertility.
Human papillomavirus (HPV) cause genital warts. Genital warts may look like very tiny bumps in the genital or anal area. They may also grow inside the vagina or anus, on the cervix (the lower part of the uterus), or in the throat. Often the warts are too small to see. Often warts never develop at all, even though HPV is present. Most people with HPV never have any symptoms. There are various treatments for genital warts and early cervical cancer, but there is no cure for HPV infection. But of course not to over-generalise, there are people who still wish to wait till their marriage before having sex.
Do you really think you want to have sex to keep your boyfriend? Or do you want to have sex for a moment of pleasure/ fun/ curiosity? Why not have it when you are older and more mature? Always remember, Leave your virginity till marriage where you have only 1 partner. Till then, you will have a lower risk of having STDs and have kids.
Pray to Lord. He is always there for you, leading you ahead and pray sincerely for Him to use His power to help you.

Philippians 4:13
"I can do everything through Him who gives me strength."

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Still Missing You.
Sunday, March 1, 2009, 8:56 PM






I'm Strong.

"Whenever I think of you, ...
I wonder.

It's like we've become complete strangers.

Everything changed .
You were the perfect one, one that make me feel alright.

Many times I wanna get back with you...
but I know I shouldn't.

I feel like breaking down,...
You sit in front of me in class.
Yet I feel so far.

I adore you more than what words can be express.

I still miss you.

I see you've moved on, ...
But why am I still here with hope clutched between my fingers?

Why do I feel this way?

I'm a strong girl,
Strong.

But these tears...
I will never make my tears known to you nor anyone else.

I still miss you, I really do.



This is a confession from Jade.

She had loved Jack all her life since secondary school.
They were the perfect couple,
GORGEOUS POPULAR MATCH.

He, the uber striker in the soccer team.
She, the cheerleader president.

Everyday was happily spent with each other...
Who was to know...

Jack lusts over another girl, Janey.
In a dilema, he decides to double-time both of them secretly.
But we all know that for a relationship, there will never be unopened secrets.

Jade's bestfriend saw Jack with Janey.
And what happened next was anyone's guess...
She called Jade to inform her.

"Hey, Who are you going to trust? Your friend or your boyfriend?
I'm at Soccer practice."

Jade wondered whether it was true because he isn't himself these days.
They rarely met, rarely text, barely talked.
No, He's my boyfriend. I should trust him...
But...

Jade wants to confront Jack but she doesn't know how to.
Meanwhile...
"Who's that?" Janey asks.
"Oh, just a paranoid ex-girlfriend." Jack answers and snaps his phone.
Then turning to Janey with a coy smile he whispers,
"Now, where were we?"
Janey giggles and they kiss...
Phone conversation later that night...

Jade: Hey honey!~
Jack: Hi.
Jade: I haven't been seeing you for the past days, can we meet?
Jack: (*silence*)
Jade: Are you there?
Jack: Look, Jade...I....
Jade: Is it true?
Jack: What?
Jade: The rumours of you and Janey.
Jack: (*silence*)

You know..
let's breakup.

Jade: (*silence*)
Jack: We ...It's not the same anymore.
Jade: No!...Wait!... What's wrong with me? Tell me and I'll change! Tell...
Jack: Goodbye.

All that was left between them was a confused Jade and the dead phone.
Break-ups cannot be unprecedented.
But from break-ups, we can always strive to grow into a stronger person.
Will you?


Breaking news,
1st, Cherrychero

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"Sneaky Ways to tell if he'll be a good boyfriend" - Chrome♥
, 5:44 PM



Chrome♥ here . Hi . I am here to tell you girls out there the 4 signs that'll make a good BOYFRIEND .
Main Point HERE . He's awesome to be with -- but here's how YOU can tell if your crush is the BoYFRIEND material .

1.He makes you Laugh.
Laughing at the same jokes means you understand each other on a very deep level -- it's like the very foundation on which strong relationship are built .

2.He confides in you.
A guy who tells you things he hides from his friends, like his stress over a big Chem test, trusts you. He's connecting on a personal level beacuse he wants to strengthen the relationship .

3.He asks you questions.
When he takes an active intrest in your life, it says that he respects the things that are important to you. He values your opinion and wants you to be an equal relationship .

4.He disagress with you .
A guy who argues a little isn;t afraid to be himself around you -- he'll never be an annoying lapdog.
If he lets you disagree with him, it shows he's a good commumication, which makes it easier to work through any future issues !

#1 SIGN HE'LL BE A CRUMMY BOYFRIEND
He's all over you! Beware of any guy who can't keep his hands to himself or is too quick to say that he wants to be himself or is too quick to say that he wants to be with you forever. It's an indicator that he's really intrested in getting a girlfriend -- and any girl he finds will do .

So , think wisely do you really want a CRUSH or not ? ;)

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PIGGY'S PART 1
, 5:43 PM

Hello everybody, welcome to this blog! I am piggy and this blog is for you guys to read and also to enjoy, so please give us your fullest support! This blog belongs to Asrah, Mag, Chrome, Cherry and also me, Piggy.
What do we normally look out for in guys? Well, some guys just look plainly hideous and won't even attract our attentions. But, some other guys just look so handsome that we all will just turn our heads and have a look at their model- like face.
In our survey,
We found out that other parts of the guys are as equally attractive as the face.
Examples like, their height, weight, facial features, the shoulder build and also their character.
I personally think that, everything is important.
From the top to the toe.
From the features to the inner beauty,
Everything counts!
We can't possibly be with a guy who is like super handsome but has a super wicked heart right?
Who won't want a partner who is perfect in everything?
Well, thinking back, nobody's perfect.
Everybody should be treated equally.
Example like, a girl shouldn't choose a guy if he's more handsome than a guy who's ugly.
She should really ask herself who she really like,
Not asking herself silly questions like,
"I should choose Guy A because he's more handsome, and so i will get more face"
OR
"I should choose guy A because it will then show people that i have got good taste"
All this are just stupid reasons to accept a good looking guy.

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Boy Girl Relationships--- Ewww or Ahhh KISSES
, 5:27 PM

The prince rides off with the princess and lives happily ever after.

Intimate kissing and romantic lines that can sweep any maiden off her feet, we all perceive this in our daily lives, media that is sketched with couples being in love. Or should I say,
TEENAGERS OPENLY KISSING IN PUBLIC.
Its okay when we see it in films and imagine it in little novels, but what do you think when Teen-smooches are openly observed in public?

Asrah finds out.

“They are too open, how can they kiss in the public? They should be considerate of how the public perceives them.” Piggy deliberates, when asked whether she is disturbed by such actions on screen.
“Well…It makes the storyline more interesting. Personally, I think this is just a phrase of growing up. If they want to kiss, they should do it where there are no ‘keh-pohs’.”

Mag voices out too, “Ewwww! I think it’s disgusting! I can’t imagine the saliva mixing with another’s! But if it’s on film and the teenager actors are doing it professionally, I don’t mind.” She adds with a dreamy smile.

“Well it depends where they’re doing it,” Foo comments, pausing with a pondering silence before continuing, “If they’re doing it discreetly in a corner, I would close an eye. However if they’re doing it in broad daylight to boast their relationship, I would think that the girl is a slut and the guy is a jerk. But when it’s done so in movies, I think it’s romantic.” She blushes.

I’m not sure about you, but when I see smooching between teenagers in public, I can’t exactly describe what I feel but I know I look away and pretend that I have seen nothing at all.
Am I feeling embarrassed? Envious? Curious? Or sympathetic that the Guy can’t choose a better place to kiss his girl?

I don’t know and I don’t care.

But what I DO know and what I DO care is that I hope teenage couples out there don’t attempt the un-definable, respect themselves and the person they’re courting and most importantly, live their happily ever after!

Asrah~

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