"SEX the great leap -Friendship broken" - Chrome
Saturday, March 21, 2009, 4:08 PM
A Friendship Broken



Ginny was 17 when she met her dream guy. They got together a month after they met and were inseparable. A year later, her bf decided to break up woth her before he left to further his studies overseas. Heartbroken, Ginny tried finding ways and means to ease her pain.



"Losing Ken was the most diffcult thing for me. He was my first bf and it wasn't as though we stopped loving each other. He just decided that it wasn't fair for me to wait for him while he jet off to another country for three years. When he left, i cried for days and it was thanks to my friends that i felt brave enough to leave the house. I was especially grateful for one friend, Tim. He was always there when i needed him - i only had to SMS him when i needed him and he would say he would be ready to take me out for a breather.

Then one day, i met Ken on the streets. We talked, and laughed... just like the old times. I was so sure that Ken would ask to get back with me until his new girlfriend walked up.

I was devastated and called Tim, who had become my best friend. He came, we talked, I cried in his arms. Tim was great, comforting me and telling me that i deserved better. I looked and him, and without thinking, I started kissing him. One thing led to another and we had sex.

After that, I was lying in bed, with Tim beside me, wondering what on earth I had just done. When Tim turned to hug me, I pushed him away ashamed. I had to tell him that what we've just done was a huger mistake. He got angry and left. From then, he's avoided me like plague even though I've tried to make amends. i never meant for things to turn out this way. I realise now that sex should never be taken lightly. And i lost a good friend in that lesson.

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