" How to dump him --- ^ the nice way^ " Break- up survival guide - Chrome♥
Sunday, March 15, 2009, 7:10 PM
You don't have to feel like you're going to crush his world -- these guidelines will make it easier on him and you

WHEN TO TELL
DO: Break the news when you can go your seperate ways, like the end of the school day on Friday. ( Avoid situations when you'd be forced to spend time together, like on a car ride -- so awkward ! )
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DON'T: Make excuses to drag it out. (" I don't want to ruin his birthday") Urgh. Stalling will just allow more timefor your unhappiness to build, so it will get even harder to en on good terms .

WHERE TO DO IT
DO: Choose a semi-private place, like the school parking lot , the detention corner , the last level of the school ( erm , maybe not, in case somebody tries to jump down ) , or his living room -- it spares the embrassment of making a scence ( or even; crying ) in front of, say, a random waitress at the restaurant or the principal just outside the general office .
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DON'T: Pick a totally private place like -- his bedroom -- where you could be talked into a one last kiss or something even more terrible - it will jus cost more pain and cause confusion. Or a very crowded place like outside a major shopping district or the canteen . It will cause more embrassment where both parties could attract unwanted attention .

WHAT TO SAY
DO: Be gentle but straight: " This isn't easy for me to say -- I don't think I'll ever stop caring for you -- but i need some space right now." ( aww, how Jacob&Bella ) Keep it short ( as if ripping off a Band-Aid [Plaster] ).
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DON'T: Blame him ("You never call when you say you will"), even he asks why. This is about you and what you need -- anything you say about him will just hurt his feeling more.
NEVER:Break up just to make up ! Don't dump your guy just to see if he comes running back. An on-again cycle undermines your relationship than making it stronger.
-Chrome♥

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