" Your 5-step recovery plan " Break-up survival guide - Chrome♥
Sunday, March 15, 2009, 7:44 PM
Your BFFs are already on their way over with the ice-cream in hand, but here are some other ways you can help yourself heal.


1.MOPE
Go ahead, put on comfy sweats, then make this promise to yourself; " I'm going to give myself five days to watch crappy movies, eat ice-cream and feel heartbroken. Then, I'm going to start feeling better." Telling yourself that you'll get through this gives you, not him, control your feelings.

2.IGNORE HIM
Talking to him might seem helpful (" I'll just want to hear his voice!"), but it only reopens the wound. So, delete his number and remove him from your Facebook list. ( You can try to be friends later, after you moved on. )


3.CLEAN UP
Get rid of anything that reminds you of him. If you can't bear to thrash it for good, give it to a friend, so you don't have to see it on a daily basis. (She can give you back when you both decided that you are over him.) If you have the stuff he needs back (such a jerk) as her to give back to him.
4.STAY BUSY
Pinpoint the times you miss him the most (do you still listen to the last text before you fell asleep?) and fill them in with something else: Re-read Twilight , New Moon , Eclipse & Breaking Dawn , listen to Gekidou, or whatever . If you keep yourself distracted, the sadness will eventually fade on it's own .

5.SHARE
Hang out with your friends and share your thought and feelings with them. Or share with your family members or whoever that makes you feel comfortable ( but don't go sharing to the wrong company! ) Your friends and family will be there no matter what or no matter who you are .


AND DON'T FORGET: that half the world is filled with guys, why are you afraid that you won't end up with one? *winks* ;)

-Chrome♥

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